Hi, I’m ty
I was 20 years old when I learned during a sexual experience that how I was having sex wasn’t actually congruent with who I saw myself as.
This wasn’t a negative experience for me; I see it now as one of the most liberating moments of my life.
In the moment, it was scary, upsetting, and confusing. My sexual identity was where I felt confident and being asked to re-examine what that meant felt almost overwhelming.
I spent the next phase of my life getting to know my sexual self in a way I didn’t know was possible. I was an early masturbator, I’d had tons of sexual partners, I felt very confident in what I knew about sex before this revelation. What was missing was MYSELF in the equation!
So I took a deep dive into my kinkiest, deepest desires, and it’s through that exploration that I found my true, non-binary, self.
I knew I had to share it with the world.
My Approach
May we all experience the joy of safety in our bodies.
It all begins with a desire.
Maybe you want to have better orgasms.
Maybe you want to bring up an open relationship to your partner.
Maybe you want to try something kinky but don’t know where to start.
Or maybe you feel like you and your partner’s libido is mismatched and you know the intimate spark was there at one point but now you’ve lost it.
Whatever it is, safety has to be first for you to feel comfortable to move forward.
From internal safety, we can garner the confidence to have better sex, deeper intimacy, and safer relationships.
